At first the Bridezilla movement was a little shocking but pretty entertaining. These days there is a network of television shows and websites specifically about being a bridezilla. While stress can make us do wacky things, we should not be encouraging or celebrating this type of tantrum-throwing behavior! If you feel an outburst coming on, stick to our three step plan of keeping yourself in check! 1. Ask for honesty - After you get over that sparkly new ring let your close friends know that you want them to call you on it if you start getting over the top. You may need someone to snap you into reality when you get overwhelmed.
2. Use your resources - If your vendors told you that you can contact them if you have any questions, than do so. Let them know that you need some extra help on the issue at hand so that you can rest assured you have a professional on your side.
3. Focus on your Fiancé - Make sure to pay attention to your soon to be Mr. so that you don't lose sight of what this whole thing is about. Spend time together and make sure to set limits to wedding conversations so that you both enjoy the process while still enjoying your day-to-day lives.
